Sunday, March 6, 2011

Lesbianism = Feminism ?

Many false dichotomies, false generalizations, and false stereotypes have been wrongly applied to the lesbian way of life. Once a woman announces that she is lesbian, society strips her of her individuality and deals with her according to the outdated stereotypical assumptions that are in place.

Here is the syllogism: 

  • If one is lesbian, then it is assumed that one hates men or is anti-male. 
  • If one is anti-male, then it is assumed that one is pro-women.
  • If one one is pro-women, then one is feminist.
Therefore, lesbianism is feminism. Right? Wrong!!!  Let's tackle this one step at a time.

1) If one is lesbian, then it is assumed that one hates men or is anti-male.
Being lesbian does not mean that one is anti-male. Lesbians simply lack the attraction to the male species. The preference for female companionship should not be misconstrued into them being against men. All lesbians do not wish to rid the world of all men. If men were gone, then there would be no children. Most lesbians do not hate men, they just do not love men in the way straight women love men.

2) If one is anti-male, then it is assumed that one is pro-women.
This assumption is completely ridiculous. Many lesbians are not pro-women. In fact, there are lesbians who align themselves more with the men than with women. Therefore, they would be would less likely to be for the rights of women. Some lesbians, in order to make themselves feel more powerful, prefer to have women who feel inferior. Now, it is true that some lesbians are pro-women, but it is not because they hate men. They are for women's rights because they are women first.

3)  If one one is pro-women, then one is feminist.
There is a difference between being for women, and being a feminist. Being for women is a belief, while feminists out that belief into practice. Many lesbians prefer not to act. They just want to love and not get involved in the politics. Some lesbians feel as if they are separated from the rest of the female population. Lesbians have different goals and desires. Sometimes a win for women turns out to be a loss for lesbians.

Not all lesbians are the same. It is wrong to lump them all under the same generalization. They are individual humans with their own beliefs.








4 comments:

  1. I love how you separated Lesbianism and feminism. Too often are those two concepts mixed up. Misconceptions are taken as law instead of individuals actually taking time to learn.

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  2. I totally agree with everything you said in this post. I remember on numerous occasions when I told someone that I had a girlfriend and they asked me why did I hate men. At first I was offended but then I realized that they were just ignorant to my preferences so I kept it moving.

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  3. I love the fact that you spoke out about Lesbianism and Feminism. Too many people are ignorant to the idea that there is a difference between the two and the actual difference. I fell as though more people should speak out like you did and voice how they fell and how negativity impacts them. This will hopefully open the eyes of other people and give them a better understanding that lesbians are humans just like everyone else.

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  4. While I was reading this blog I just could remember all the ignorant statments I heard people say in regards to lesbians and feminism. I feel as though this blog was much needed to let people know that all misconceptions about lesbians. Hopefully, this opened people to the fact that lesbians are just humans.

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